Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Only freaks come out at night...

When I was younger my mom used to lecture me about going out late at night. She told me that only "bad people" come out at night and only "bad things" happen at night. My mom never elaborated on these bad things or bad people but anything that happened after 9 PM was BAD. I listened to what she was saying but always disregarded it because I thought she didn't know what she was talking about. The older I become and the more my mom's lectures make sense.

I met this man on sunday night that was just so damn fine. If you look in the dictionary under handsome his picture would be right next to it- ok, that's a slight exaggeration but you catch my drift. ;) So yeah, after we exchanged a few glances his eyes called me over and we started talking. (Did you know 70% of communication is non-verbal?). Everything he said just slid off this tongue so smooth, he had me smitten. I gave him my number and we chopped it up after the club for a little bit. He decides to text me today, the 31st, at 2:45 AM. I was awake (still am awake) but usually I sleep by midnight due to my working schedule. Anyhoo, he asks me to come over to kick it, as if asking someone to KICK IT AT 2:45 AM IS NORMAL. He is outside his MIND. His dime piece looks instantly dropped to a penny. Maybe even less. Now, if you look in the dictionary under slime-ball you'll see his picture. He's a prime example as to why I don't give my number out to men I meet at the club because like my mama said, "Only bad people come out at night."

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

"I got 5 on it..."

Stole this from Julie Law.
Copy and Paste it to your blog!


5 things that make you happy...
1. Being in good company. My family and friends.
2. Random acts of kindness.
3. Laughing at the random youtube videos Ava sends me. Random funny things.
4. RETAIL THERAPY.
5. Music. Doesn't take a lot to make me happy.

5 things that make you mad...
1. Hmm.... when I go into the fridge to grab something to eat and find that the box is empty! It always happens to me.
2. Rhetorical questions. Example: your boss asks you... "Do you think I'm stupid?"-- why would you ask me that? If I were to say yes you'd fire me and if I say no you'd think I'm lying anyways! It's a lose-lose situation and these type of questions are POINTLESS.
3. Beating around the bush. Just say it! lol
4. Allergies. Cats are the worst.
5. mmmm... I don't know? I don't really get mad. They're more pet peeves.

5 things you want in a relationship...
1. A man who puts God #1, family and then everyone else falls after that. Gotta have your priorities straight.
2. Trust. Trust me, I'll trust you. Trust makes everything easier. "See you don't have to worry about me, as long as you keep it real, whatever's on your mind, speak on how you feel, stay truthful to me, and never lie to me..." - lil wayne
3. Good conversation. Looks only go so far... if you can't hold a conversation it pretty much ends there...
4. Space. I can't feel smothered. Eke.
5. Someone who likes me for me.

5 random facts people may not know about you...
1. Ummm........ I can ride a unicycle. Now if I could juggle at the same time it would be entertaining.
2. I used to train to fight at chaisai - muay thai kick boxing. Anyways, my parents never wanted me to fight but I have a lot of energy! Hyper child.
3. I'm half puerto rican and half korean. Not mexican, philipino, chinese, japanese, somoan, indian, and no, I don't know how to cook teriyaki chicken-- ignorance is bliss. lol.
4. I like to write music as a hobby. At first I used to write a lot of classical piano music but lately I've branched over to r&b/slow jams. There's no better way to express emotion than through music.
5. I like to THINK I can freestyle when under the influence of alcohal. ha ha. It's stupid but it's fun, and Carissa likes to join me. We break it dowwwwwnnnn.. jk......


Ok, this took a LONG TIME.
AVA AND NAE I WANT TO READ THIS IN YOUR NEXT BLOGS.
LOL

Monday, December 29, 2008

A few good men.

"If you are 25 or older and you still sayin niggas ain't shit then you need to get a grip on yo life cause what you meant to say is... all da niggas you fuck with ain't shit and you need to find out what it is bout' yo pussy that keeps attractin ain't shit niggas..."
- Kat Williams


lol that quote's a little explicit but it's true. I believe it goes towards women of all ages. Don't get me wrong, I am not bashing on my own gender. I'm just sick of hearing friends/other girls complaining about how "all guys are the same"-- on the contrary, all guys are NOT the same. There are good men out there. They say that the worst pain you experience is self inflicted. If a guy is treating you bad, you're letting him treat you that way. People only do to you what you let them do! If your man is cheating on you and you're not strong enough to leave him that's your own fault.

like lil' wayne said...

"if he ain't gon' treat you right, then i ain't gon' treat you wrong..."


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Singles in between the ages of 20 and 60.
The blue circles indicate the most single men and the red are the women.
SO, LADIES, it looks like Seattle, Los Angeles/Long Beach (or anywhere in Cali for that matter), Phoenix, and Dallas Fort-Worth are your best bet. Oh, and St. Paul, Minneapolis. lol. Stay in the mid-west and the westcoast and you just might come across a man that isn't like the rest.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

1st Timothy -
12 Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and purity.
14 Do not neglect your gift
15 Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them.

Friday, December 26, 2008

1 Th 5:18 - Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

1 day late.

:)

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Love at First Sight

University of Bath and Match.com study reveals that true love grows with time. You may be able to meet a date at the double click of a mouse, true love blossoms with time.

University of Bath scientists working with the world’s leading dating and relationship company, Match.com, have found that true love grows over time – for men in particular.


- Univerity of Bath and Match.com

what's interesting is...

A survey, from the 2006, of 679 American men and women found that 30 percent had indeed fallen in love the moment they laid eyes on their partner.

- info from: WaynesBrownsMinitries.com


My thoughts?

First off, I don't know how it feels to be in love. I think of it more as lust at first sight. I see a male's physical appearance, the eye contact, the smile (particularly the teeth. I love teeth. haha) and if it all fits together in a nice medley I'm intrigued. After I become intrigued comes the initial contact-- which usually consists of a small conversation and if he's peaked my interest enough a phone number exchange. Then, there's the texting/phone conversation and if things go well there's a first date/meeting-- the "meeting stage" is rare because I'm picky as a m'fka and despise wasted time. Anyways, I had a chat with a friend about this topic earlier and she was a strong believer in love at first sight. I, on the other hand, need a little more than just what meets the eye to capture my love.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

"Heartbreak Drake"

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Drake- raw talent. Definitely underrated and nothing wrong with it. Anyways, he's still young and I'm sure he's going to blow-up in a matter of time. He did his own rendition on 'Swagger Like Us' and I'd vote his verse over all the other remixes of the single-- "I can rock skinny jeans cause my credit cards skinny". I encourage everybody to check out his mixtape that's about to be released.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Random Random Random

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I'm not a "sneaker-head" but I saw these shoes on ultramaly.com-- (the cure to common boredom) lol. A nice little collectors item in tribute to the Supersonics, who are now Oklahoma Thunder? (correct me if I'm wrong).

Love is in the air-- at work. Nothin' wrong with some holiday lovin'. Everyone's love and happiness has rubbed off onto me and I feel...well... in love and happy! LOL. Everyone's happier when in love. I love love!

Co-worker just said... "If and buts and candy and nuts" -- I don't know what she was referring to but I thought it was funny.

I MISS ATLANTA!

WHAT'S YOUR SIGN?-- when I meet people I find that this question is almost always asked. I don't pay attention to horiscopes or anything that pertains to signs. Anyways, when a male asks me my sign and I say virgo they almost always give me this... *eye brows raised and a ever so slight look of disgust* along with, "OH. VIRGO." HAHA! I don't get it! Virgos are supposedly stubborn, selfish, self-centered, detail-oriented, etc. Being that my birthday lies on the 20th of September I am on the "cusp" of being a Virgo/Libra. BLAH! I don't get it. I AM NOT A VIRGO! I'M AN ESTHER! BLAH! Work's driving me nuts. Goodbye now.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Dec 1st, 2008!

I CAN NOT BELIEVE it's already DECEMBER!

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Jan 30th thru Feb 1st - Las Vegas for Soph's Birthday!
March 25th thru 29th - back to Atlanta
April - undecided - Steph's birthday. Puerto Rico/Cruise.
May 28th thru June 5th - Dallas
August 26th thru 30th - HOTlanta
(I should just move to ATL right? lol)

;)